This week was filled with two unique Nepali experiences, familiar things that I found it interesting and in some cases hilarious to compare with home.
Yesterday I went to the tailors to pick up my new clothes, my first trip to the tailor had been with my lovely friend Ali, who’d been firm with me and made me tackle the busiest roundabout in our area with the bike. (and with her of course!) If you’ve heard about the bus incident you’ll realise it’s become somewhat hazardous to let me cycle alone!
When we got there I was flung into the unfamiliar territory of clothes shopping, Nepali style.
You see here, you don’t wander in to your local TopShop, pick something, pay and then leave.. or even see the same thing in 15 sizes and then realise that none of them look nice.
Here you have the luxury of choosing your own material and the added embarrassment of being measured for your new outfits!
When shopping, I’m the sort of person who’ll find something she likes and get the same in five different colours then flee from the shop. In Nepal clothes shopping is an entirely different entity.
You purchase your material, then you pop along to the tailor where you’re poked and prodded and measured. You laugh at the ‘you’re so tall’ remarks and can’t keep a straight face when the tiny guy practically has to hug you to get a measurement.
When he takes your leg length in three measurements because he can’t reach from you’re hip to you’re ankle, you get the feeling that perhaps you are just abnormally large and that makes you laugh even more.
After taking about a zillion (perhaps I exaggerate…a little!) measurements, I become convinced that now the guy is just making these up and revelling in the fact that he’s got a giant to clothe.
So he finishes measuring and then asks what neckline I want, trust me these guys do amazing things with necklines, you can even dare to design your own!
So all done, I leave my precious material with the little man and scarper.
One week later I make the journey back to the tailor, with Ali absent, I figure it’ll be safer.. I mean nicer ^^.. to walk to the shop.
When I arrive I am greeted with the biggest smile ever and shown my finished product. The first words out of my mouth are ‘Can I try them on!!’
Anyone who’s been clothes shopping with me, knows this is entirely uncharacteristic! I put on my new Kurta Suruwal and feel so good. It’s the first time I’ve had clothes made to measure that actually feel like they’re made for me! You can tell this guy has put in so much care and the attention to detail is awesome.
They’re perfect. So perfect, I put in some more material and ask him to make me two more sets and some Badeshi (foreigner) trousers.
Job done.
When Ali told me she was going to get her hair cut I jumped at the chance to go with her and see, I can tell you now, expecting a grubby shop with a few people with scissors in, is not the attitude to have in Kathmandu. It seems, if you look hard enough, there is a little bit of luxury in the most unlikely places.
Take seven floors up in a slim tower block that for example. Ali and I got into this tiny elevator and pressed 7. I loved the fact that the air conditioning in the lift was a set of fan blades infront of a square hole in the ceiling that revealed the lift wires.
Getting out we entered a little salon. A couple of hours later we emerged hair-washed, head massaged, cut, blown dry and straightened. Ali had got highlights too.
The funny part? Having my hair straightened when half way through the hairdresser called for backup and suddenly there were two people straightening my hair with military precision. The genius part was they both wore wooly gloves to prevent burning their hands.
So Claire, this is a blog about God, how on earth are you going to relate this to the Bible, God, or to mission? I mean getting your haircut and some new clothes hardly constitutes as mission does it now.
Filling you in on the hilarity of my daily goings on has become something I love!
Being at the tailor, in reflection, does remind me of something God is teaching me.
He’s made to measure, he’s a perfect fit for our lives because he’s measured every inch of us. He knows our most intimate details. If he was making me a Kurta he wouldn’t have the tape measure out because he knows everything about me.
From the exact shade of my eyes to the size and shape of my pinkie toe he knows me physically. And from the everyday random thoughts of me to my deepest longings and desires, he knows them all.
Matthew 10 vs 29-31 says
Are not two sparrows sold for a penny[a]? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from the will of your Father. 30And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
When God created you, he took the basic material, fair enough you didn’t pick it but trust me he chose the perfect things for you. When you came into the world he rejoiced at the sight of your wrinkled pink body, marvelling at his own creation and the love that burned in his heart for you.
When we choose to follow him he begins his work on making us beautiful in his eyes, he moulds us, fashions us, influences us, loves us completely and fills that space in our heart. The space we never quite new existed until it was filled and we realised that the feeling of emptiness we once felt was not normal.
When we return to heaven I like to think that he’ll have a smile so big that we can’t help but grin back. I can’t wait for the welcome as we enter his house.
And I still can’t quite believe that he’d let people like me have the chance to wander through his front yard and make myself at home in his kitchen.
So I’ll leave you with this verse, brownie points if you can tell me where it’s from without checking BibleGateway!
‘Trust in the Lord and do good, dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.’